Brenton James Worden “Uncle Buck” – our beloved brother, uncle and friend passed away in his sleep on September 8, 2023. Brent was born in St John, New Brunswick on May 30, 1963 where he resided for the first six years of his life. Brent as a young boy loved spending time riding his bike, swimming and playing baseball. The family moved to Sorrento in 1969 and then settled in Chase BC. Brent worked for CP rail for over 34 years where he made lifelong friendships. In his later years he enjoyed time with his friends, gardening and video games. He was an avid reader and enjoyed documentaries and old time TV shows. He loved children and his little sidekick Winston. Brent was so witty and funny; he could always put a smile on your face with his “Brent humor” – no matter how inappropriate it was.

Brent’s son Bryce passed away five years ago, his life and health were never quite the same after losing him. Even through his times of illness, his love for his family and friends always shone through. Brent is survived by brother Gary Melvin (wife Lynn, daughter Jennifer, son Christopher), brother Wayne Melvin (wife Diem, daughters Mackenzie, Rachel and Hannah), sister Heidi Markland (husband Graham, daughters Mandy (Cali), Ashley and Lindsey), sister Krista Pittendreigh (husband Fred, sons Curtis and Darren) and his CP Rail family and friends.

Rest in peace brother dear, Bryce and Winston are waiting at the pearly gates for you.

“Love you long time”

There will be a Celebration of Life held at The Coast Hotel in Kamloops, October 21 at 2:00pm.

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Brenda Finch, age 49, of Kamloops, BC, left us on September 8, 2023, just one day shy of her 50^th birthday. She passed away at the hospital in Kamloops after being visited by many friends and while surrounded by family.

Brenda was born in Oshawa, Ontario, to Arthur Kirk and Susan Kirk “née Neate”. While two years old, the family moved out west to Calgary, Alberta, planted roots and was home for the next twenty plus years.

Shortly after graduating high school she attended SAIT and completed the two-year Business Administration Diploma program, then obtained her Fundraising Certificate from Mount Royal College (now MRU). Later in life, she earned a Master’s Degree (MBA) from Royal Roads University.

Brenda met Rob Finch in Calgary and together they moved to Salmon Arm, BC, where they married and shortly after, their son Matthew was born. The family moved to Kamloops, BC, and they were blessed with their daughter Cecilia.

After several years in Kamloops, the family returned to Calgary. Brenda and Rob became foster parents and shared their love with many children who came through their home. When their children were in high school, Brenda and Rob found great job opportunities in Kamloops and were ready to move back to BC. A few years later, Brenda and Rob separated but remained close until the end. Brenda went on to build a special community of housemates in her home and valued the good times they all had together.

Brenda’s work history was varied but it always involved taking care of people or animals. In Calgary, her first job was at Calaway Park looking after the petting zoo. (To this day she still could not eat lamb.) She also worked at Smitty’s where she loved serving the seniors and chatting with them. Brenda had a successful career working for public sector and non-profit organizations such as the University of Calgary, Finch & Co., Royal Inland Hospital Foundation, Boys & Girls Club (now BGC), Safe Haven, then in facility management with BGIS and CBRE. The one thing that was common with all these jobs was that she cared about taking care of her clients and making connections.

She is survived by her parents Arthur and Susan Kirk, her children Matthew and Cecilia (Jackson), their father Rob Finch with his parents and family, her sister Angela Pinette (Wayne) and her nephews Ryan (Selena) and Andy, as well as her sister Heather Kirk (Rick) and her niece Sarah and her nephew Joseph, and numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins in Ontario, England, and Dubai.

She was predeceased by her grandparents James and Isabella Kirk, and John and Mary Neate, as well as her aunt Rosemary Neate.

Brenda frequently reminded herself and others that “when one door closes, another will open”. During the last day she was with us, she said she “was going through her last door”. We love you Brenda. May you find peace and happiness in your new journey.

A private celebration of life will happen at a later time. In lieu of flowers, please donate to the charity which speaks to your heart.

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Olga Johanna McDonald
September 30, 1932 – August 26, 2023

How can someone summarize such an amazing woman? Olga McDonald wore many hats in her life, as well as survived many hardships, but still ended up the most loving, kind, and patient person one could have the honor of knowing. And as it is with us all, her story is one of hope for a better tomorrow, always. And it is that hope that she leaves behind with us as she left this world.

Olga is predeceased by her loving husband Angus and beautiful son Rory. She is survived by her children Aleta (David) of Kamloops, Walter (Cindy) of Vernon, Grandson Spencer McDonald Clark of Kamloops, Brother Eybie (Caroline) of West Virginia, Niece Jane (Brian) of West Virginia, Granddaughter Michelle (Quinton) of Prince George, Chrysta (Dean) Vernon, and Grandson Joel of Kamloops.

She came from South Africa, was raised in an orphanage shortly after the untimely and sudden passing of her father. Whilst in the orphanage she suffered all manner of abuse, and had to endure the death of her youngest brother. But she never gave up hope that life would get better, and it did. She eventually left the orphanage and lived with her mother again, but her mother wasn’t easy to be around. This tested her continually every day, but she always looked forward to the day she could be her own woman, and that day came.

She met her husband, Angus- who, when first meeting her said he was looking forward to going to lunch with his future wife, she told him she would go with him, but she’d pay for herself. Not long after they were married, she looked forward to the moment she became a mother, and she did. She had three beautiful children, Aleta, Walter, and Rory. She was a tough mother, a habit she learned from hers, but over time she softened.

Eventually her family was forced to leave South Africa, when they touched ground in Canada, she hoped that life would get better, and it did. Her children grew and learned, and had experiences of their own and she looked forward to the day they became their own people, and they did.

Her daughter had her grandson, and it was love at first sight for both of them. He loved his grandma, and she loved him more than words could express. Her husband, Angus, suffered a heart attack that took his life, she hoped that with time his untimely death that his passing would get easier, and it did, over time. Later on, her daughter was diagnosed with breast cancer, and she spent many nights telling her young grandson that she will survive and this too shall pass, and it did. She watched as her grandson grow and develop a beautiful relationship with her daughter in the process. Her oldest son grew to be self assured forging his way through life, and she was proud of him.

As a small family, times could be challenging, and they were. However, through all the hardships and struggles, saying that “this too will pass. And it did, meanwhile keeping us all grounded.

Then the news of her youngest son Rory was murdered suddenly, just 2.5 years ago. It broke her heart and she cried often, but she held out hope that one day she’d heal from the shock and pain, though it weakened her considerably, she adjusted to it, all the while believing that the situation would become livable. And it did.  She spoke of hoping that when the day came, for her to leave us and go wherever it is we go when we die, that she would see her son and husband again. And this is where her story ends, we don’t know if she did, but following in her footsteps, we hope.

A special thank you to the nursing staff on GT7 floor for keeping mom comfortable during her short stay in the hospital.

Hope is her legacy, and it lives on in us.

A private family gathering will be held.

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With great sorrow, we announce the sudden passing of Glenn Frederic Fieber on the evening of August 21 just four days before his upcoming wedding and one week before his 84th birthday. He was surrounded by his five children, and his fiancée and her daughter when he left us.

Glenn was predeceased by his wife of over 50 years, Daryl, who passed away in February of 2022. He is survived by his first wife Doreen and their children, Paul (Lori) and Shelley, and he and Daryl’s children, Cameron, Kirstie, and Joel, along with grandchildren Elliot and Casey (Cameron and Jamie), Isaac (Kirstie), and Karolina and Pashabel (Joel and Kate). He is very much missed by his fiancée Libby Denbigh.

Glenn was born in Flin Flon Manitoba in 1939, son of Fred and Nellie Fieber. His father was a coal miner and later a union organiser. His mother was a teacher, and that became his life’s passion.

Glenn started out as a young teacher in small BC communities (where teaching work was available) before moving to Kamloops in 1969 with his first wife and their two children. It was in Kamloops that he found a home and spent most of his adult life, and where he accomplished the things he was most proud of. He met and married Daryl in Kamloops and they had three children together.

Glenn was a great believer in the interconnectedness of all things, and that everything that happens in life happens for a reason. The decisions he made and the people that he seemingly connected with at random were instrumental in many things that shaped his life. A couple of these…

• A conversation with Sandy McDonald at a Vernon squash tournament led to the creation of the Tournament Capital concept. Sandy worked with John, whose wife Kenna Cartwright was on the city council and could make the idea reality. If any of those connections did not exist, this would have become another random conversation that went nowhere.
• The Father’s Day Soccer Tournament grew out of a local Westsyde affair that eventually encompassed nearly every youth team in the greater Kamloops area. Glenn along with Eric Schweizer at one point commanded every playing surface in Westsyde and perhaps beyond so that over 80 teams could play through the Father’s Day weekend.

Glenn was dedicated to the profession of teaching. He taught in BC public schools for over 30 years, and was involved not only in classroom instruction, but almost every extra-curricular activity that he could manage to cram in. He taught A/V classes, worked on the yearbook and in the theatre department, and still found time to coach school teams and the soccer teams of many of his children (Paul, Cameron and Joel). After 30 years of keeping that pace, he decided to un-retire and move to China and teach there, which he did for another 7 years, joined by Daryl when she retired herself a year or so later. After China was done, he continued to teach at TRU in Kamloops, and they eventually sent him off to South Korea for yet another opportunity to teach. In his early 80s he came off the bench once again to teach a special A/V course at his daughter Shelley’s school in Langley. Teaching was a life-long pursuit that he never stopped doing.

Even while taking every teaching opportunity he could, he did eventually manage to enjoy his retirement. He was a lifelong participant in the Terry Fox Run, and brought it with him wherever he travelled, organising runs in Shanghai during his time there. He loved spending time with his grandchildren, travelling with friends made during his years of public service in the school system, and skiing. He kept his season pass to Sun Peaks to the very end, and always made it pay.

In preparation for the end of his life, he wrote a letter to his children, and updated it over the years. His final words to us are:

I won’t say “The End” because there isn’t one.

But, all my love,

Dad

There will be a memorial service at 1 o’clock in the afternoon at the Mountain View Room of TRU on September 24, 2023.

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On August 20^th, 2023, Martin Bullock, our much-loved father, brother, uncle and son passed away at the age of 62 years in Kamloops BC,

Although Martin had many obstacles to overcome in life, he finally conquered them all.  Martin was predeceased by

His Father William Bullock, his Mother Winifred Bullock, his Grandchild, Jayden Koscielny. He is survived by his loving children

Jordan Bullock his wife Elizabeth, Geoffrey Bullock, his wife Diana, Jenni Searle (nee Bullock) her husband Jason and Rachel Bullock,

along with his many beautiful grandchildren, and finally, by his loving siblings Andrew Bullock his wife Lorraine, Jane Oostlander (nee Bullock) her

husband Jack, Rick Bullock, his wife Nicole and many loving nieces, nephews and their respective spouses and families

Rest in peace, you were so loved, and we will miss you until we meet each other again on the other side.

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