On Saturday, April 25th our beloved Mom passed away peacefully, surrounded by the things most precious to her. We will be forever grateful to Kamloops Seniors Village for their compassion and support through these past four months. Mom loved her new home and mentioned the hug every night that her Care Aide gave her before she went to sleep.
Mom and her twin sister
Catherine were born at Royal Inland Hospital 89 years ago. Their birth caused quite a stir in the
community because so few multiple births survived. For many years people would knock on the
Owens’ front door and ask to see the twins!
Mom was raised in a happy, loving home by Jessie and William Owens. In addition to Catherine (Ken), she had an
older brother (Dr.) Bill Owens (Marion) and little sister Jeanette (Bill)
McQuay. Except for Marion, her family
are all gone now.
In 1954 Mom married the
love of her life, Victor Newman of Brocklehurst. They were hard workers and made each other
laugh every day. Mom had two kids, Vicci
and Bobby, who she was fiercely proud and protective of. She loved being a mother-in-law to Cathy
Newman and Tony Ryan. In fact, she often
mentioned that she loved them ‘best’.
Christine (Bob & Cathy’s daughter) was Mom’s only grandchild for
many years but later in life Carling, Erin (Mitchell) and Caitie joined the
Newman Clan when Vicci married Tony.
Christine was so lucky to grow up next to her Grandparents at the lake. In addition to her immediate family, Mom
opened her home and heart to three people that we consider important members of
our family; Jim, Susanna and Alex.
For over 20 years Mom worked
for the Kamloops School Board as the Teacher-On-Call Secretary. At work by 5:30am, Mom would field calls from
teachers who were ill. In the years before automation, Mom knew all the elementary
teachers by name, knew what kind of teaching style they had and was able to
select the right sub for the right classroom.
She knew the subs individually just by the sound of their voices.
After she and Dad
retired they spent many happy days with her siblings at Shuswap Lake. All the Owens siblings had purchased in the
Sorrento area and they saw each other daily.
This meant the cousins saw each other frequently, and to this day the
cousins call the Shuswap, ‘Auntie Wyne’s Lake!’
Wyne and Vic loved
their life. They had a close, happy
family which included the Newman siblings – Gwen, Darrel and Melvin (Sybil) and
many dear friends. Mom was involved in
Beta Sigma Phi, played golf at the Kamloops Golf Club and was a part of the
same Bridge Club for over 50 years. For many years Mom had an ‘Antique Lady
Party’ every November, which included 40 or so ladies who came to drink wine
and eat fancy sandwiches. Dad was the
only man invited, and he loved being the bartender!! Later in life she and Rae Morelli held Happy
Hour daily until Mom lost her dear friend in 2010. The Happy Hour Gang included
her long-time friends: Mavis, Gwen, Rudy and John who continued to meet every
Tuesday until this past February. Mom
looked forward to this special day with reverence. Over the years Bob and Pat Ryan joined many
Happy Hours and supported Mom at every turn!
She loved her friends!
The Owens family were
Presbyterians and Mom loved going to church.
When Dad asked Mom to marry him she replied, “Only if you become a
member of St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church!” They were married in the church 66
years ago, and at the time of her death she was the oldest living member. From childhood our parents had a framed bible
verse that hung in the kitchen, “John
3:16: For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish, but have
everlasting life”. Over the years
our family has known the ministers at the church and considered them family
friends. Mom would want George Peters,
Harold Weist and Steve Fylik to know how much she enjoyed their visits and
support in the last few years.
Bonnie Tindall was
Mom’s private Care Aide. In truth, she
is an angel who worked with Mom night and day and always put Mom’s needs before
her own. Mom loved her deeply and our family
owes Bonnie an immense debt of gratitude.
We asked Mom a couple
of years ago what she wanted to be remembered for once she had passed away. She said, “That I was good, and I needed more
wine!” Her final words to loved ones were
“Enjoy your lives, and the truth is I don’t wanna go anywhere!!!”
In lieu of flowers
(which Mom loved) the family would appreciate a donation to the ‘RIH
Foundation’ in Wyne’s memory. There will
be no service at this time but the family will hold a memorial, God willing,
when times are safer.