We are saddened to share that
our dear mom Doreen left us December 2, 2020. She was always proud to share the
story of her beginning as an Oven Door baby. She was born March 24, 1924 in
their Saskatchewan
farmhouse to Ida and William Oldhaver. Her twin brother did not live. The
doctor said at 2 ½ pounds she probably won’t survive so put her in a shoe box
on the oven door and against incredible odds she did survive for 96 years &
8 months!
Her life partner Cecil passed
away 2 years ago just after their 71st anniversary, August 2018.
They fell in love during WWII after being neighbourhood friends from the time
they were 10. Mom bravely followed dad on many fishing trips, their winter
trips to California,
many moves and building projects. Mom nursed our dad through many serious
health issues. She truly was a faithful and loving wife.
Mom worked for Boeing in
Richmond, BC building planes during the war. She took her teachers training at
Normal School in Vancouver.
She was so proud of being a teacher and taught in many different places, the
last being Red Lake
School and a small school on their
ranch in Tranquille Valley in the Kamloops
area. She was an extraordinary cook and baker, letter and diary writer,
seamstress, gardener, rancher, mother, wife, grandma, foster mom, and business
partner. Mom cooked delicious meals for everyone who came to their home. She
cooked meals wherever they wandered in their camper van or trailers. She loved
being a grandma and looked after her grandchildren when they came for weekends
or extended stays. She cooked meals & cookies and delivered them to her
sons and their children. She was exceptionally proud of her membership in many
volunteer groups. She often was one of the original members and executive of
the boards. One of her favourite places they lived was Parksville in Vancouver Island. Mom loved the small community, living
on the ocean and going for walks along the beach. She left a piece of her heart
there when they moved back to Kamloops.
Mom wrote a daily diary on whatever was handy and kept track of meals,
visitors, the weather, and what was happening. She wrote long letters to dad
when he was away during the war and to Judy & Rick when they lived in the
NWT and Yukon.
We still have those diaries and letters to treasure.
Mom leaves to celebrate her
life: sister Glady Blackwood, children Judy (Rick) Fehr, Calvin, Darryl, John
(Elaine), grandchildren Kari (Mitch) Currie, Terry (Shantall), Brittney (Jon)
Ekelund, Nicole (Curtis) Jansen, Will (Margo) Fehr, Caitlyn, Tyson (Kyla),
great-grandchildren Maverick Currie, Leo & Griffin Fehr, Maddi &
Brooklyn Ekelund. She was predeceased by her brother Alvin in 1997.
There will be a private
graveside service and a celebration of life will be held when we can gather
safely. It was mom’s wish that we gather in the summer when it is safe to
travel.
Donations in lieu of flowers
can be sent to the Arthritis Society, one of Doreen’s charities.
Messages of condolences can be sent to fehrjudy@gmail.com www.kamloopsfuneralhome.com